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#26 2005-09-03 12:40 pm
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Re: Suicide
I see nothing wrong with suicide ; my final sentence is meant to be:
"If you actually believe that your efforts will actually make life better for you (highly debatable) then you are less likely to commit suicide. I believe that this and the built-in objection to your own death are the [biggest] barriers to suicide."
I do believe that if you father/mother a child or deliberately establish a relationship with someone then you have some responsibility.
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#27 2005-09-03 1:01 pm
Re: Suicide
Thanks again, guys, and thanks for those that shared.
The strangest thing to come from the one that was successful, was that in death, she made all his friends a part of her and her young sons life. Most have drifted away, but my son and one or two others visit the family, bringing gifts and making sure the kid's ok.
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#28 2005-09-03 1:07 pm
Re: Suicide
Pariah wrote:
I am always distressed by the lack of compassion for those who get stuck in that horrible, dead end suicide place.
Yes, it is wrong, and yes there are better answers but who of us can claim never being in a bad place like that?
Some of the comments I have read here just reek of arrogance, like the writer never suffered human flaws.
You're probably referring to me, so I'll respond.
I'm full of flaws, both small small and large.
When it comes to compassion, though, no breaks for suicide and self-inflicted damage of any king. At all. Ever.
-Tim
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#29 2005-09-03 1:11 pm
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Re: Suicide
yelowpunk wrote:
I'm full of flaws, both small small and large:
When it comes to compassion, though, no breaks for suicide and self-inflicted damage of any kind. At all. Ever.
Fixed it for you. 
[Although your original with "damage of any king" was interesting.]
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#30 2005-09-03 1:58 pm
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Re: Suicide
yelowpunk wrote:
Pariah wrote:
I am always distressed by the lack of compassion for those who get stuck in that horrible, dead end suicide place.
Yes, it is wrong, and yes there are better answers but who of us can claim never being in a bad place like that?
Some of the comments I have read here just reek of arrogance, like the writer never suffered human flaws.You're probably referring to me, so I'll respond.
I'm full of flaws, both small small and large.
When it comes to compassion, though, no breaks for suicide and self-inflicted damage of any king. At all. Ever.
-Tim
Nice heartlessness
I reject your concept
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#31 2005-09-03 3:03 pm
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Re: Suicide
VegasACF wrote:
justine wrote:
The boy will never know what kind of man his father really was.
That's one way of looking at it. Another is that he'll know exactly the kind of man his father really was.
I'm not trying to be an ass here, honestly (despite the way the above sentence may sound). But I think it will prove quite difficult on the psyche of this child if all he hears about is "what a great guy" his father was, but yet is left to reconcile those tales with the naked truth of his father's ultimate act. Perhaps mental illness played a role here (you don't go into any detail -- and understandably so), and if so that might go towards ameliorating the child's conflicted feelings toward his father (though in this case it is likely the child will forever wonder why his father didn't seek help or receive help from those around him rather than take his own life).
If the child only hears a whitewashed account of who his father was he'll likely have some issues (to greatly understate the matter) that shall forever haunt him.
I agree, which is why if I were the mother I'd make up a lie and say he died in an accident. I know that also sounds awful but why have the child grow up thinking the father didn't love him?
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#32 2005-09-03 5:25 pm
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Re: Suicide
Wow, suicide is terrible. Teen suicide is completely crazy, and I think it comes from teens trying to play adult games with BF's and GFs and whatever, and they think they go through a tragedy, when they don't know tragedy.
My dad went through a lot in his life that he didn't want to talk about. Particarly war, a desperate war, unlike that with U.S. marines. He never told me what he saw, but I can imagine him seeing his life long friends be mutilated in front of him. I think that largely contributed to his suicide. I'm not too sure exactly how it went after that, a lot of this is guesswork. Anyway, he worked as an electrical engineer, a very stressful job, and he just coudlnt' deal with stress, so he got some minor back pain, and that later escalated into a drug addiction. My Dad's family has a history of drug problems.
Anyway, this was going on for quite a few years, then at one point he got anti-depressants. For the first time in a long time did my dad feel no back pain. It was very good, but then the doctor refused to sign his disability papers, and my dad quickly abondoned the doctor, and went back to traditional addicting pain killers. So, this was going on for a few years. Then, before his suicide, he went into this crazy state, where he couldn't sleep. This could have been an overdose, and we substituted it as an overdose, but what I later think is that he had gotton anti-depressants, even though he said he didn't. What I actually believe is that he took the anti-depressants and was just overwhelmed by this sudden flood of information which was previously hidden by the drugs, and I think after realizing what a smurfy state he was in, he pulled a gun, and killed himself.
I'm sorry my wording is really bad, but I have this cold which like puts me in a very smurfy state, and I cannot really think that clearly...


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