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#26 2008-05-16 12:45 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

resedit wrote:

What I'm saying is - why put something into the democratic process if you are going to ignore the results you don't like?

You mean like getting UN approval to go into Iraq?


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#27 2008-05-16 1:13 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Now we've done it. What next, marrying our toasters?


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#28 2008-05-16 1:26 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

bratboy wrote:

....and by "different way" you mean through legislation?

lol

Well yeah....

Its that darn activist legislatures !


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#29 2008-05-16 1:35 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Daniel wrote:

resedit wrote:

What I'm saying is - why put something into the democratic process if you are going to ignore the results you don't like?

You mean like getting UN approval to go into Iraq?

The UN did not go into Iraq.


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#30 2008-05-16 5:25 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Anti-Gay marriage laws would be considered unconstitutional in any state with an amendment to the state constitution that bans discrimination based on gender.
Part of the point of a constitution is to insulate certain issues from popular whim.


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#31 2008-05-16 6:54 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

btw - I really don't care anymore.
Just to be clear.

I am opposed to just calling them civil unions - that's a lie to keep the "marriage definition" people happy, if it is to be legalized, be honest about it and call it what it is - marriage.


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#32 2008-05-16 7:49 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

I always think it is informative to read the statements of the anti-gay crowd and replace references to gays with "jews". Kinda makes the thrust of their beliefs more clear.
I seem to recall another political movement with a big problem with the "Jewish Agenda", now it's the exact same thing except now it's gays.


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#33 2008-05-16 8:05 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

resedit wrote:

I am opposed to just calling them civil unions - that's a lie to keep the "marriage definition" people happy, if it is to be legalized, be honest about it and call it what it is - marriage.

I dont know- the problem seems to me to come from the religious connotation of the word "marriage." If religion is perceived to be the bone of contention anyway, an unconstitutional belief system tainting what the law can or cannot allow, I kinda think the secular "civil unions" is more honest.


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who is addicted to what's superficial,
who grubs with greedy hand for treasures
and then is happy to discover earthworms! - Goethe

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#34 2008-05-16 8:25 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

resedit wrote:

Daniel wrote:

resedit wrote:

What I'm saying is - why put something into the democratic process if you are going to ignore the results you don't like?

You mean like getting UN approval to go into Iraq?

The UN did not go into Iraq.

Yeah, no kidding.


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#35 2008-05-16 8:26 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

StaticAge wrote:

resedit wrote:

I am opposed to just calling them civil unions - that's a lie to keep the "marriage definition" people happy, if it is to be legalized, be honest about it and call it what it is - marriage.

I dont know- the problem seems to me to come from the religious connotation of the word "marriage." If religion is perceived to be the bone of contention anyway, an unconstitutional belief system tainting what the law can or cannot allow, I kinda think the secular "civil unions" is more honest.

If, and only if, the government calls straight marriages civil unions too.  Otherwise it's "separate but equal" rubbish.


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#36 2008-05-16 8:30 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Daniel wrote:

StaticAge wrote:

resedit wrote:

I am opposed to just calling them civil unions - that's a lie to keep the "marriage definition" people happy, if it is to be legalized, be honest about it and call it what it is - marriage.

I dont know- the problem seems to me to come from the religious connotation of the word "marriage." If religion is perceived to be the bone of contention anyway, an unconstitutional belief system tainting what the law can or cannot allow, I kinda think the secular "civil unions" is more honest.

If, and only if, the government calls straight marriages civil unions too.  Otherwise it's "separate but equal" rubbish.

I agree, thats what I meant.


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#37 2008-05-16 8:39 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

StaticAge wrote:

resedit wrote:

I am opposed to just calling them civil unions - that's a lie to keep the "marriage definition" people happy, if it is to be legalized, be honest about it and call it what it is - marriage.

I dont know- the problem seems to me to come from the religious connotation of the word "marriage." If religion is perceived to be the bone of contention anyway, an unconstitutional belief system tainting what the law can or cannot allow, I kinda think the secular "civil unions" is more honest.

I tend to agree. I think that all official "marriage" licenses should be renamed to "civil union" licenses. Then, it's less emotionally involved to talk about allowing other types of unions.

It also makes the separation of church and state that much more clear.

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#38 2008-05-16 8:54 am

iSeamas
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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

radarman wrote:

StaticAge wrote:

resedit wrote:

I am opposed to just calling them civil unions - that's a lie to keep the "marriage definition" people happy, if it is to be legalized, be honest about it and call it what it is - marriage.

I dont know- the problem seems to me to come from the religious connotation of the word "marriage." If religion is perceived to be the bone of contention anyway, an unconstitutional belief system tainting what the law can or cannot allow, I kinda think the secular "civil unions" is more honest.

I tend to agree. I think that all official "marriage" licenses should be renamed to "civil union" licenses. Then, it's less emotionally involved to talk about allowing other types of unions.

It also makes the separation of church and state that much more clear.

Why not call it marriage?

What the hell does religion have to do with marriage anyhow? (NOTHING)

I got married by a justice of the peace.
I'm as married as any religios person is. (and more so than a good many of them)

Marriage existed as an institution outside of religious ceremonies for thousands of years.

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#39 2008-05-16 10:12 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

iSeamas wrote:

radarman wrote:

StaticAge wrote:


I dont know- the problem seems to me to come from the religious connotation of the word "marriage." If religion is perceived to be the bone of contention anyway, an unconstitutional belief system tainting what the law can or cannot allow, I kinda think the secular "civil unions" is more honest.

I tend to agree. I think that all official "marriage" licenses should be renamed to "civil union" licenses. Then, it's less emotionally involved to talk about allowing other types of unions.

It also makes the separation of church and state that much more clear.

Why not call it marriage?

What the hell does religion have to do with marriage anyhow? (NOTHING)

I got married by a justice of the peace.
I'm as married as any religios person is. (and more so than a good many of them)

Marriage existed as an institution outside of religious ceremonies for thousands of years.

Because too many people get emotionally involved when discussing "marriage", but when you frame the argument in terms of civil unions, all of a sudden it seems like a decent idea.

IOW, there is too much emotional and religious baggage associated with the term "marriage"

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#40 2008-05-16 11:01 am

iSeamas
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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Well people need to get over it.
People getting emotional about something is not a good reason at all.

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#41 2008-05-16 11:06 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

radarman wrote:

iSeamas wrote:

radarman wrote:


I tend to agree. I think that all official "marriage" licenses should be renamed to "civil union" licenses. Then, it's less emotionally involved to talk about allowing other types of unions.

It also makes the separation of church and state that much more clear.

Why not call it marriage?

What the hell does religion have to do with marriage anyhow? (NOTHING)

I got married by a justice of the peace.
I'm as married as any religios person is. (and more so than a good many of them)

Marriage existed as an institution outside of religious ceremonies for thousands of years.

Because too many people get emotionally involved when discussing "marriage", but when you frame the argument in terms of civil unions, all of a sudden it seems like a decent idea.

IOW, there is too much emotional and religious baggage associated with the term "marriage"

My response to those emotional and religious people: tough smurfing titty.


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#42 2008-05-16 11:06 am

radarman
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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

iSeamas wrote:

Well people need to get over it.
People getting emotional about something is not a good reason at all.

That's easy to say, but not so easy to implement. There are still vast swaths of this nation that would tell you to get over the idea of gay marriage.

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#43 2008-05-16 11:08 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

ShnickyShnack wrote:

My response to those emotional and religious people: tough smurfing titty.

So you don't think that marriage is anything but a collection of civil contracts?


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#44 2008-05-16 11:11 am

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

resedit wrote:

What I'm saying is - why put something into the democratic process if you are going to ignore the results you don't like?

Democracy's a lovely thing, but even laws approved by popular referendum are (and should always be) subject to the same scrutiny by the judiciary, who are, in part, the guardians of your rights as enshrined in the bill of rights.


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#45 2008-05-16 12:13 pm

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Rep. Roy Blunt opts to attack the judiciary and the State of California in the process, apparently ignorant of the fact that each of these justices have faced a public vote before:

“Today, the decision of unelected judges to overturn the will of the people of California on the question of same-sex marriage demonstrates the lengths that unelected judges will go to substitute their own worldview for the wisdom of the American people. The Supreme Court of California chose today to legislate from the bench without any concern or deference for the democratic process.
“This ruling effectively opens the door to allowing the opinion of this state’s court on same-sex marriage to stand as the law of the land for the entire country. These California values are not the values of the majority of the American people – and the manner in which this decision was rendered is not consistent with the values of a democratic society.”

Link.


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#46 2008-05-16 12:31 pm

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Robert B. wrote:

Now we've done it. What next, marrying our toasters?

Then I want to marry one of these.

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#47 2008-05-16 12:40 pm

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Pithecanthropus wrote:

Robert B. wrote:

Now we've done it. What next, marrying our toasters?

Then I want to marry one of these.

http://i57.photobucket.com/albums/g235/ … 5zooma.jpg

Holy smurf, me too! Where do I sign up?


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#48 2008-05-16 12:43 pm

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

You mean they don't allow that in Canada?


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#49 2008-05-16 12:52 pm

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Pithecanthropus wrote:

Robert B. wrote:

Now we've done it. What next, marrying our toasters?

Then I want to marry one of these.

http://i57.photobucket.com/albums/g235/ … 5zooma.jpg

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#50 2008-05-16 2:24 pm

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Re: Breaking: CA ban on same-sex marriage unconstitutional

Daniel wrote:

If, and only if, the government calls straight marriages civil unions too.  Otherwise it's "separate but equal" rubbish.

As they ought to.  It's always baffled me as to why religious people allow the State to contaminate what they believe to be a spiritual union with a bunch of legalese and paperwork.

Let the state do its thing.  Let the local church/mosque/synagogue do its thing.  The State does not need church blessing to fulfill its mandate.  The church does not need the State's rubber stamp to fulfill its mandate.

Decouple the machinery of coupling!


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