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#126 2005-04-25 2:26 am

Steyr AUG
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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

MrJ in OZ wrote:

Steyr AUG wrote:

bratboy wrote:


Admittedly, I don't see how you got tossed in there (not to pass judgment on the others)...

All I want to know is what "the BB" means and why race was brought up by podesta. Then I can go to bed wink

yea, he keeping everyone awake for this one. tongue
do tell.

He has about 5 minutes before he gets religated to the MacMistress pool of indifference.


Just like back in Saigon! Eh, slick?

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#127 2005-04-25 2:29 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

The evidence that the persons involved were likely operating from racial bias has already been presented.  Feel free to read my comments explaining how I reached that conclusion since you apparently haven't, Steyr.   And, no, I am not falling for 'we didn't know the child is black.'  I'm sure most people did, considering national coverage of the episode on television.

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#128 2005-04-25 2:34 am

Steyr AUG
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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Podesta wrote:

The evidence that the persons involved were likely operating from racial bias has already been presented.  Feel free to read my comments explaining how I reached that conclusion since you apparently haven't, Steyr.   And, no, I am not falling for 'we didn't know the child is black.'  I'm sure most people did, considering national coverage of the episode on television.

More tapdancing, why can't you just come out and explain why you accuse me of being racist:

That is true of children of all colors, so Oz, Steyr, You Know Who, and the not yet arrived, but completely predictable BB1 through 3, should feel free to spare us the 'blacks are inherently violent,' attempt at justification.

And this time, don't pull a MacMistress.


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#129 2005-04-25 2:40 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Steyr AUG wrote:

Onthebeach wrote:

Let's call the cops every time a five year old has a tantrum. SWAT for a seven year old and the marines for anything older.
The teacher in question should think about changing her job.
Maybe the cops too as they seem to think it easier to handcuff a child rather than using their imagination. Do they handcuff their own kids when they misbehave?

When they come in to an unknown situation with a reportedly violent suspect you bet they should be putting handcuffs on them.

"A reportedly violent suspect" does not accurately describe a five year old having a tantrum does it?


If any ask us why we died,
Tell them 'Because our fathers lied'.
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#130 2005-04-25 2:42 am

Steyr AUG
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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Onthebeach wrote:

Steyr AUG wrote:

Onthebeach wrote:

Let's call the cops every time a five year old has a tantrum. SWAT for a seven year old and the marines for anything older.
The teacher in question should think about changing her job.
Maybe the cops too as they seem to think it easier to handcuff a child rather than using their imagination. Do they handcuff their own kids when they misbehave?

When they come in to an unknown situation with a reportedly violent suspect you bet they should be putting handcuffs on them.

"A reportedly violent suspect" does not accurately describe a five year old having a tantrum does it?

All the police are going to know is that they were called because someone was reportedly being violent. This dispacher isn't going to say "girl having a temper tantrum" they are going to say "reportedly violent suspect at location, use caution" or similar.


Just like back in Saigon! Eh, slick?

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#131 2005-04-25 3:05 am

MrJ in OZ
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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Podesta wrote:

]That is true of children of all colors, so Oz, Steyr, You Know Who, and the not yet arrived, but completely predictable BB1 through 3, should feel free to spare us the 'blacks are inherently violent,' attempt at justification.

Y'know jackass, I am 1/2 Samoan. Do you consider me black? I think all you see is black and white. I don't consider myself black. I don't consider myself white. I consider myself at present, of middle class. The only differences I see in society are rich vs poor. you are fighting the wrong fight dumba*s. Sure some people act in a stupid or poor manor somtimes, but the only difference I see in humanity is wealth. Try focusing beyond your nose.  To me it sound like you have a bunch of accusations but nothin to back them up with.

I think this is the forum for you.
http://www.jimgoad.com/cgi-bin/yabb/YaB … 066060319.


"One accusation you can't throw at me is that I've always done my best."  big_smile

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*Fallacy at its zenith kids.* "Who is this "we" you keep talking about? What price have "you" paid for this war? Blah, Blah. Its hardly a "we" proposition."

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#132 2005-04-25 3:16 am

MrJ in OZ
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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Getting back to my argument.

Sure she only threw one tantrum but I think it's part of a larger trend of bad parenting, especially 21st century parenting. Parents don't spend the time they can with their children anymore. They raise them with the television and today


*Fallacy at its zenith kids.* "Who is this "we" you keep talking about? What price have "you" paid for this war? Blah, Blah. Its hardly a "we" proposition."

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#133 2005-04-25 6:02 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Steyr AUG wrote:

What on earth is "the BB" and why did you associate me with them?

I'm probably BB, which to him if I remember right stands for Bigoted Bastard 1.

His way of saying my name without mentioning it... but alas he is probably the biggest bigot here. Or at least the most confused.


Governing sense, mind and intellect, intent of liberation, free from desire, fear and anger, the sage is forever free.

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#134 2005-04-25 6:19 am

MrJ in OZ
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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Yea, isn't it interesting how he uses a justice scale as an avatar but is so off base, skewed in thinking and condems people on slanderous inconclusive accusations.


*Fallacy at its zenith kids.* "Who is this "we" you keep talking about? What price have "you" paid for this war? Blah, Blah. Its hardly a "we" proposition."

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#135 2005-04-25 7:19 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Cyberpawz wrote:

The school teachers and faculty are technically not even allowed to touch a child, or they can be sued. A child can punch hit, throw things at the teacher but the teacher can't do anything back except tell the student to calm down or to tell them to have a "time out". The schools now have to hire faculty which are allowed to handle the child if they get out of control...

This issue was debated over the weekend by the news media. The school was correct to videotape the disruptive child and call the police. The child should be suspended until the parent(s) can teach her basic manners and respect. Further the parent(s) should be warned about any future behavior acts being grounds for permanent dismissal. And I agree that school should have right to discipline child in such circumstances.


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#136 2005-04-25 7:29 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Don't know if anyone has mentioned this yet, but personally I would *never* place a small child in handcuffs, mainly due to their *own* safety. I don't know how many of you have handled/worn handcuffs before, but they can be extremely painful to wear if jostled or jangled around, and they will leave your wrists quite battered and bruised. If you placee handcuffs on a child throwing a temper tantrum and acting out-of-control, I'd be worried about seriously bruising and/or breaking the child's wrists. Small children still have soft bones, that break far more easily than ours.

And this isn't an acceptable way to "teach the kid a lesson". It's disturbing, excessive, and completely innappropriate. Why the POLICE were brought in the situation in the first place boggles my mind.


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#137 2005-04-25 7:35 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Steyr AUG wrote:

All the police are going to know is that they were called because someone was reportedly being violent. This dispacher isn't going to say "girl having a temper tantrum" they are going to say "reportedly violent suspect at location, use caution" or similar.

B.S.

How do you know what a dispatcher will say? You don't think they're allowed to use specifics? You honestly think a dispatcher are not going to distinguish between a possible violent offender and a 5 year-old child? You think the dispatcher is going to advise the police to "use caution"?

And regardless of how it was dispatched, you don't think the police could see the situation for what it was WHEN THEY GOT THERE? What, they couldn't recognize the fact that they were dealing with a child throwing a temper tantrum in a school??


“When life demands more of people than they demand of life - as is ordinarily the case - what results is a resentment of life almost as deep-seated as the fear of death”
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#138 2005-04-25 7:47 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

the teacher should've been more convincing she was serious about the girl behaving, in my opinion.  it just seemed - to me - that she was just nonchalantly saying "no...please...don't do that...no..." instead of sitting her down and being serious with her that she needs to not act up.

however - if i was a betting man - i'd place my money that her family life isn't exactly stellar, either.  the same mom that's bringing up the lawsuit against the school system probably let's her child run-a-muck at the house, too.

i've done volunteer work for kids in urban and rural settings and you can definitely tell which kids' parents pay attention to them at home and which don't.  there were more misbehaved kids in the urban areas, but in both settings - the kids who acted up had similar parenting backgrounds.  makes a huge difference.


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#139 2005-04-25 8:04 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

midgetcop wrote:

It's disturbing, excessive, and completely innappropriate...

Yes it is, HOWEVER, new rules have taken discipline AWAY from teachers, so that makes it COMPLETELY APPROPRIATE! Let teachers discipline problem students, LIKE THEY USE TO, and handcuffs and videotape will be unnecessary! Can't have your cake and eat it too!


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#140 2005-04-25 8:33 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Camp David wrote:

midgetcop wrote:

It's disturbing, excessive, and completely innappropriate...

Yes it is, HOWEVER, new rules have taken discipline AWAY from teachers, so that makes it COMPLETELY APPROPRIATE! Let teachers discipline problem students, LIKE THEY USE TO, and handcuffs and videotape will be unnecessary! Can't have your cake and eat it too!

What do you mean "LIKE THEY USE TO"? Like, caning?


“When life demands more of people than they demand of life - as is ordinarily the case - what results is a resentment of life almost as deep-seated as the fear of death”
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#141 2005-04-25 8:39 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

NokX wrote:

the teacher should've been more convincing she was serious about the girl behaving, in my opinion.  it just seemed - to me - that she was just nonchalantly saying "no...please...don't do that...no..." instead of sitting her down and being serious with her that she needs to not act up.

The problem is that, that is exactly what the teacher/principle has been allowed to do... they can verbally tell the student not to do anything, but in many cases not be allowed to touch the child at all. 

NokX wrote:

however - if i was a betting man - i'd place my money that her family life isn't exactly stellar, either.  the same mom that's bringing up the lawsuit against the school system probably let's her child run-a-muck at the house, too.

I'd agree to that one without having to see the parents at all.

NokX wrote:

i've done volunteer work for kids in urban and rural settings and you can definitely tell which kids' parents pay attention to them at home and which don't.  there were more misbehaved kids in the urban areas, but in both settings - the kids who acted up had similar parenting backgrounds.  makes a huge difference.

And do you think that any of these kids will be upstanding citizens in the near future? wink

midgetcop wrote:

Camp David wrote:

midgetcop wrote:

It's disturbing, excessive, and completely innappropriate...

Yes it is, HOWEVER, new rules have taken discipline AWAY from teachers, so that makes it COMPLETELY APPROPRIATE! Let teachers discipline problem students, LIKE THEY USE TO, and handcuffs and videotape will be unnecessary! Can't have your cake and eat it too!

What do you mean "LIKE THEY USE TO"? Like, caning?

Corporal punishment works for me...


Governing sense, mind and intellect, intent of liberation, free from desire, fear and anger, the sage is forever free.

Bhagavad Gita (c.B.C. 400)

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#142 2005-04-25 8:51 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

midgetcop wrote:

What do you mean "LIKE THEY USE TO"? Like, caning?

Way back when, I attended a Catholic School and we were perfect ladies and gentlemen in class; we never acted up and we behaved and showed respect to the Nuns and Brothers. Those that challenged the status quo were showed the business end of a wooden pointer across the fingers... I know because I got hit once for misbehaving in class... let me tell you... just one of those smacks is enough to straighten you out for life!

Do I favor beating children/caning? No. But taking discipline away from teachers is a mistake, since all parents don't raise their children equally. Don't ask teachers to teach your children if they are not given the tools!


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#143 2005-04-25 9:57 am

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

spare the rod, spoil the child

and that's not necessarily saying you have to hit the kid, but if you don't act right then and there the child won't learn.  and again, the big problem - i'm sure - is at home.


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#144 2005-04-25 12:42 pm

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Steyr AUG wrote:

All the police are going to know is that they were called because someone was reportedly being violent. This dispacher isn't going to say "girl having a temper tantrum" they are going to say "reportedly violent suspect at location, use caution" or similar.

Oh come on, that isn't true!


"One thing we've learned is there's a difference between being disappointed and having madmen in authority."

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#145 2005-04-25 1:23 pm

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

This article seems to go into a bit more detail...including what the teacher did.

http://www.sptimes.com/2005/04/22/South … e_ha.shtml

It also states how she had ALREADY been transferred from another school for the same behavior, and you can hear the police officer saying Remember me? I told your mother the last time that you be cuffed the next time. And they already removed the other children and adult, leaving only 2 in there...

Clearly this girl is continually a behavior problem...and with nothing ever happening to her she would only get worse.

Where we used to live our neighbors were the neighbors from hell, constantly in trouble with the police. The one 9yr old boy pulled a knife on my son, we called the police, and they handcuffed him and put him in the cruiser. So many kids today just have NO bounderies or respect for adults...this girl showed absolutely NO respect.

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#146 2005-04-25 1:28 pm

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

it's not like a perfectly angelic child misbehaved once and was handcuffed... this little brat had a history of violence and problems.

if the handcuffs didn't send her the message then maybe next time the cops should try tasering her.


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#147 2005-04-25 2:13 pm

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

beat her.
beat her parents.
hell, beat me! wink

:throws tantrum:


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#148 2005-04-25 2:35 pm

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

I just saw the video and it is identical to what we are dealing with in the very building where I work.

The parent teaches the child to be disruptive so they'll be diagnosed with a "learning disability" in order to collect SSI benefits.

The parents are producing criminals for a paycheck, plain and simple.

When the said little ball of angelic jopy is finally dealt with, the parent cries foul and files suit in order to try for an even larger payout.

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#149 2005-04-25 2:56 pm

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

Some people actually think the longer account of what happened helps the police department?   There's 'naive,' but there is also 'stupid.'   The information in the link Laura posted does not help the police department, though it is somewhat favorable to the school.  (We are going to treat the information as accurate, though it may not be.)

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#150 2005-04-25 3:09 pm

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Re: Handcuffing chilren. Good option?

The child should have been placed into the alternative school, but I guess that would be racist too?

This is an all too coomon case of a parent teaching a child to be disruptive for a paycheck.

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