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#1 2009-04-21 11:07 am
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Driving: Do As I Say, Not As I Do
Percentage of adults who said they had done these things in the previous 30 days:
Sped up to beat a yellow light: 58%
Exceeded the speed limit by 15 mph on major highways: 45%
Exceeded the speed limit by 15 mph on neighborhood streets: 15%
Deliberately ran red lights: 6%
Source: AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety Oct. 25-Jan. 10 survey of 2,509 adults.
Amanda Cooke, 21, a computer teacher in Running Springs, Calif., says she used to drive so aggressively that her boyfriend was afraid to ride with her. "I'd cut people off to get into the lane I wanted to get in," she says. "I'd tailgate them if they were going too slow or blink my lights if it was night." Cooke says she stopped driving that way after crashing into another driver. "I didn't think it was as risky as it was," she says.
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I spend a lot of time on the road and I see smurfy drivers everywhere. I will never understand why people feel that speed limits do not apply to them, in fact yesterday I got passed by some idiot going at least 60 in a 40 mph zone. They speed, they don't seem to notice that traffic is going slower than they are, they slam on their brakes when they get to a slower moving car, get mad and exchange hand gestures with the person who was not breaking the law. Don't even get me started on people who speed through residential areas -- killing or injuring a child would not be a good addition your day.
I see people weave in and out of traffic without signaling their turns, people who think that stop signs don't apply to them (one jerk went around me on a two-lane residential street and crossed oncoming traffic while I waited at a stop sign to to turn right -- the oncoming cars had to slam on their brakes to avoid hitting the stupid bastard).
I see people paying more attention to their cell phones than the fact that they are controlling a ton of glass and steel (like the woman who almost rear-ended me this morning as I turned onto the street my business is on). I see people who think that creeping up on a stop light will make it change green faster, and then when it does they sit there in some sort of daze.
And I'd bet that most of them are like the Ms. Cooke mentioned above who honestly don't think that their driving habits are dangerous.
I was taught to never take the other driver's skill as a given, I treat every car like it's a potential threat to my vehicle and try to never make a move without making eye contact when possible, when I know I am seen I am more secure. I've had too many close calls with people who think they're the only driver on the road to give anyone the benefit of a doubt.
Traffic laws are not there to inconvenience anyone. Speed limits, turn lanes, yield signs, stop signs and traffic lights are there to make the roads safer for everyone. When someone ignores the speed limit because they were too distracted (or just plain stupid) to leave enough time to get where they are going, they are endangering not only themselves, but everyone on the road. Being late is better than being injured or getting killed.
People get behind the wheel and turn into selfish monsters who think that everything and everyone is in their way and that needs to stop. Start driving safer today. Slow down if you speed. Pay attention to your own vehicle and those around you. Above all remember that you're not alone on the road. If we all do it, the roads will be safer.
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#2 2009-04-21 12:03 pm
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There have been psychological studies done on this phenomenon. A car extends a persons normal "personal comfort space" from about a 4 foot radius to a 15 foot radius (probably about 50 feet for an SUV). That has a corresponding effect on ego and aggression.
I have a couple friends who seriously scare me when I'm in a car with them. It's the tailgating mainly. When I drive I just always assume the other cars are potential threats and stay as far away from them as possible. I do speed on the freeway, but not more than 10mph and only when the traffic is light.
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#3 2009-04-21 12:24 pm
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I always say," would you do that to me in line at the grocery store"? I didn't think so.
I grew up in the country, I have been driving things since I could remember. It's second nature.
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#4 2009-04-21 1:54 pm
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There are two types of drivers; maniacs and idiots.
If they are driving faster than me, they are maniacs.
If they are driving slower than me, they are idiots.
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#5 2009-04-21 2:05 pm
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I generally avoid ever being a passenger in most vehicles--and even my partner's sometimes-aggressive driving has started making me insist that I drive more often.
My job unfortunately requires me to review lots of police photographs, including those from fatality car accidents. It definitely makes you think twice when you get into a car.
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#6 2009-04-21 3:52 pm
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I've often wondered if there was much besides testosterone causing so many to speed up to pass me on the right, only to immediately cut me off to turn left. 
(I mean... I'm already doing limit+5, and the road behind me is usually wide open. Just slip in there, no muss, no fuss. BUT NO...)
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#7 2009-04-21 4:29 pm
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I generally don't speed more than 5 mph in the city with the car. The speed limits are generally reasonable, and I don't like not having the overview of the road that I get on say... my Motorcycle.
When I'm on the motorcycle, then I pretty much by definition go 10-15 mph over, but not recklessly. I don't ride where there is traffic, and when I'm on the motorbike, I put all my attention towards riding and keeping people from running into me, and when there is traffic, I ride more slowly. At least that's my theory... and so far the most dangerous riding I do is down Texas Avenue, surrounded by a bunch of mindless cagers.


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#8 2009-04-21 5:02 pm
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#9 2009-04-21 6:38 pm
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iSeamas wrote:
There are two types of drivers; maniacs and idiots.
If they are driving faster than me, they are maniacs.
If they are driving slower than me, they are idiots.
Carlin used another word for those who drive slower but the sentiment was similar.
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#10 2009-04-21 6:57 pm
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Fried Chicken wrote:
I generally don't speed more than 5 mph in the city with the car. The speed limits are generally reasonable, and I don't like not having the overview of the road that I get on say... my Motorcycle.
When I'm on the motorcycle, then I pretty much by definition go 10-15 mph over, but not recklessly. I don't ride where there is traffic, and when I'm on the motorbike, I put all my attention towards riding and keeping people from running into me, and when there is traffic, I ride more slowly. At least that's my theory... and so far the most dangerous riding I do is down Texas Avenue, surrounded by a bunch of mindless cagers.
10-15 over is reckless, even if you are a skilled driver. Takes two to tango, and unless you hit a tree or a barrier, an accident will involve a car hitting you or you hitting a car.
If you're good, that eliminates you + tree and you + car, but that still leaves the car --> you that you can't avoid. And driving that much over the limit increases the chance that someone else will make a mistake or careless move.
I won't say I'm that great a driver or anything, but I have a 100% clean record, which keeps my insurance low. I'm going to do everything I can to keep it that way, too.
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#11 2009-04-21 6:57 pm
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If someone can legally drive 55 in a 55 while talking on the phone and eating while it's pouring or snowing ... why is it so wrong for someone to drive say 10 to 15 over the 55 limit while actually paying attention in dry sunny conditions. particularly if the said driver who was paying attention is driving a car designed for the autobahn.
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#12 2009-04-21 6:59 pm
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mrreet2001 wrote:
If someone can legally drive 55 in a 55 while talking on the phone and eating while it's pouring or snowing ... why is it so wrong for someone to drive say 10 to 15 over the 55 limit while actually paying attention in dry sunny conditions. particularly if the said driver who was paying attention is driving a car designed for the autobahn.
Just because it's legally okay doesn't make it okay in practice.
And in many states (and especially on military installations as my friends have found out) you are not allowed to talk on the phone while driving. On base you can't even be eating or drinking.
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#13 2009-04-21 7:10 pm
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Shadowless wrote:
mrreet2001 wrote:
If someone can legally drive 55 in a 55 while talking on the phone and eating while it's pouring or snowing ... why is it so wrong for someone to drive say 10 to 15 over the 55 limit while actually paying attention in dry sunny conditions. particularly if the said driver who was paying attention is driving a car designed for the autobahn.
Just because it's legally okay doesn't make it okay in practice.
And in many states (and especially on military installations as my friends have found out) you are not allowed to talk on the phone while driving. On base you can't even be eating or drinking.
I am not talking about "on base" ... I am talking about something that is legal in many if not most states.
... and frankly I see that almost everyday on workdays. talking AND eating or drinking ... and some cases reading a newspaper 
What I ask is what is so dangerous about "10 to 15" over.
If it's the actual speed ... I claim bs ... in Ohio the limit is 65 on the interstate 10 to 15 over would be 75 to 80 ... There are highways out west with a speed limit of 75... and 80 would be the "5 over" If it's safe out there then it is safe here.
If it's the variance in speed ... I claim bs... On my way to work I drive on a Interstate with a speed limit of 65. In the morning MANY of the drivers go about 45~ to 55. I fly past them at GPS clocked 65 MPH which is legal but still a 10 to 20 MPH difference.
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#14 2009-04-21 7:15 pm
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I am not condoning driving 15 over in a 35 - 45 mph reduced zone due in a commercial or residential area.
But driving 15 over in an area of 55 mph farmland or open highway with no other traffic or little traffic . Come on ... The person driving 45 in a 65 is going to cause more problems by far.
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#15 2009-04-21 7:22 pm
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mrreet2001 wrote:
The person driving 45 in a 65 is going to cause more problems by far.
She shouldn't drive, but damn it, I love my grandma!!!
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#16 2009-04-21 9:20 pm
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I remember this guy was frantically popping from lane to lane trying to jockey his was up thru traffic, despite his efforts after 5 miles he was only 50 feet further up the road than me, not worth the effort in my opinion 
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#17 2009-04-21 9:51 pm
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mrreet2001 wrote:
If someone can legally drive 55 in a 55 while talking on the phone and eating while it's pouring or snowing ... why is it so wrong for someone to drive say 10 to 15 over the 55 limit while actually paying attention in dry sunny conditions. particularly if the said driver who was paying attention is driving a car designed for the autobahn.
Me driving 10-15 over the limit with both hands on the wheel at all times and actually paying attention is a hell of lot safer that some jackass talking on the phone, texting and/or putting makeup on while driving.
Of course I have a 2 seater convertible roadster -- they don't let you buy one unless you promise to drive it like you mean it. 
The sad thing about highway driving is that I was much safer pulling 100 mph on the straight and 45-50 in the corners on the road course with the car club.
People really need to stop tailgating. At speeds like 70-80 mph, when someone stops in front of you -- they come up damn fast.
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#18 2009-04-21 11:50 pm
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ScifiterX wrote:
iSeamas wrote:
There are two types of drivers; maniacs and idiots.
If they are driving faster than me, they are maniacs.
If they are driving slower than me, they are idiots.Carlin used another word for those who drive slower but the sentiment was similar.
I honestly meant to give Carlin credit for that. Such a great observation.
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#19 2009-04-22 9:21 am
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"I was paying attention, Jenny Haggar."
Aw, he's no fun, he fell right over.
Unless you become as little children, there's no way you will believe this crap.
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#20 2009-04-22 9:32 am
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See? These "but I pay attention while going 15 mph over the speed limit" things are exactly what I was talking about. It's exactly the same thing as saying, "my co-workers are on eBay and Facebook all day, but they don't steal, I do my job very well, and I only steal a few dollars from the till." Nobody in that scenario is doing the right thing.
It's not about how good a driver you are, or how good you think you are, things happen that are beyond your control and your excessive speed could wind up injuring or killing someone, or at the very least doing damage to your vehicle and costing you a bunch of money.
People seem to feel entitled to ignore the speed limit and I just don't understand that. If the speed limit is 30 they want to go 40, if it's 50 they want to go 60 and it if's 70 they want to go 80. What's wrong with traveling at the posted speed limit?
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#21 2009-04-22 10:00 am
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Pithecanthropus wrote:
See? These "but I pay attention while going 15 mph over the speed limit" things are exactly what I was talking about. It's exactly the same thing as saying, "my co-workers are on eBay and Facebook all day, but they don't steal, I do my job very well, and I only steal a few dollars from the till." Nobody in that scenario is doing the right thing.
It's not about how good a driver you are, or how good you think you are, things happen that are beyond your control and your excessive speed could wind up injuring or killing someone, or at the very least doing damage to your vehicle and costing you a bunch of money.
People seem to feel entitled to ignore the speed limit and I just don't understand that. If the speed limit is 30 they want to go 40, if it's 50 they want to go 60 and it if's 70 they want to go 80. What's wrong with traveling at the posted speed limit?
mrreet2001 wrote:
What I ask is what is so dangerous about "10 to 15" over.
If it's the actual speed ... I claim bs ... in Ohio the limit is 65 on the interstate 10 to 15 over would be 75 to 80 ... There are highways out west with a speed limit of 75... and 80 would be the "5 over" If it's safe out there then it is safe here.
If it's the variance in speed ... I claim bs... On my way to work I drive on a Interstate with a speed limit of 65. In the morning MANY of the drivers go about 45~ to 55. I fly past them at GPS clocked 65 MPH which is legal but still a 10 to 20 MPH difference.
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#22 2009-04-22 10:03 am
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I drive the fracking speed limit in reduced zones ... It's the pointlessly low speed limits out in open country that are in place to simple bring in more revenue that I have the problem with.
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#23 2009-04-22 10:09 am
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Pithecanthropus wrote:
It's not about how good a driver you are, or how good you think you are, things happen that are beyond your control and your excessive speed could wind up injuring or killing someone, or at the very least doing damage to your vehicle and costing you a bunch of money.
If they actually started ticketing drivers who are eating, talking on the phone, putting on makeup, lighting cigarettes reading the paper ... and get those people off the friggen road... It would make the roads ALOT safer than everyone driving the speed limit.
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#24 2009-04-22 10:51 am
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My point is that it is ILLEGAL to speed, regardless of your personal point of view.
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#25 2009-04-22 12:19 pm
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Pithecanthropus wrote:
My point is that it is ILLEGAL to speed, regardless of your personal point of view.
It's also wasteful of fuel, but perhaps some enjoy melting glaciers. Clearly there are no legitimate reasons for posted limits, and there's fun to be had.
It's so unfair to ticket speeders when others go unticketed. Until then, all bets are off.
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