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#151 2005-12-18 12:59 am

Font/DA Mover
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Registered: 2005-12-12
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Re: Interracial Dating

I was lucky enough to be in Jr HS when this was a hit on the radio. Jr HS was urban, so there were lots of non-White bread folks to get to know. One girl was an immigrant from Iran.

Seemed like it was a good idea then. Still think it works.

Sly and the Family Stone
Everyday People

"Sometimes, I'm right, and I can be wrong
My own beliefs are in my song
The butcher, the banker, the drummer, and then
Makes no difference what group I'm in
I am everyday people, yeah yeah

There is a blue one who can't accept the green one
For living with a fat one trying to be a skinny one
Different strokes for different folks
And so on and so on and scooby-dooby-dooby
Ooh sha sha, we got to live together

I am no better and neither are you
We are the same whatever we do
You love me, you hate me, you loathe me, and then
You can't figure out what bag I'm in
I am everyday people, yeah yeah

There is a long hair that doesn't like the short hair
For bein' such a rich one that will not help the poor one
Different strokes for different folks
And so on and so on and scooby-dooby-dooby
Ooh sha sha, we got to live together

There is a yellow one that doesn't like the black one
That won't accept the red one that won't accept the white one
Different strokes for different folks
And so on and so on and scooby-dooby-dooby
Ooh sha sha, I am everyday people"

I read thru all six pages of postings just to be sure I wasn't repeating an obvious thing.

Now as far as dating, somebody already said it: If it looks good and you like each other, hit it. As often as possible...

Last edited by Font/DA Mover (2005-12-18 1:02 am)


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#152 2005-12-18 1:33 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

While we are quoting lyrics -

Steve Taylor wrote:

Down Carolina way
lived a man name o' Big B.J.
B.J. went and got a school
founded on caucasian rule
bumper sticker on his Ford
says "Honkies If You Love The Lord"

chorus:
We don't need no colour code
take your rules and hit the road
Judgment Day is goin' down
better burn your cap and gown

White man speak with forked tongue
white supremists eat their young
bigotry is on the loose
ignorance is no excuse
I know Jesus loves that man
even with a Greenville tan

(chorus)

Marching to Pretoria
colour codes in churches huh?
following a fascist creed
whose translation do you read?
true believers won't be snowed
we don't need no colour code

(chorus)


In her right hand Jenny held the Bible of her mother
Jenny had a pistol in the other
-- Steve Taylor

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#153 2005-12-18 2:08 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

where all dem white bitches at ??


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#154 2005-12-18 2:13 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

NoExit wrote:

where all dem white bitches at ??

I locked them in my dungeon.


In her right hand Jenny held the Bible of her mother
Jenny had a pistol in the other
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#155 2005-12-18 2:26 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

Barenaked Ladies' The Ballad of Gordon wrote:

There was darkness, there was light,
There was day and there was night,
There was wrong and there was right...
And then there was me.

You didn't even know me, but you treated me like dirt.
(And then there was me)
You didn't even know me, but you called me a jerk.
(And then there was me)

I'm from a planet near a star
You wouldn't know (it's very far).
They're calling me the man from Mars
And I think they're insulting me.

They tried to take my special suit.
(Insulting me)
They said my head looks like fruit what is fruit?
(Insulting me)
Put your hands up or I'll shoot! I don't have hands...

Across the galaxy I flew,
Heard a peaceful message sent by you.
Now I find you're judged by color and size.
I can't believe what you call my...

I'm the guy who sails the sky, but I think I'd like to live here.
I'd like to share your mountains, share your trees, and share your rivers.
I've never seen so many beings of so many colors.
I'd like one day for you to say that I can call you brothers.

(And then there was we)
I'd like to learn about your pizza and your weather,
(And then there was we)
Then we could learn about how beings live together.
(And then there was we)

So if you're thinking about being a spaceman,
It don't matter if you're black or white
Or purple or green or blue or red
Or yellow with polka dots on your head
Or made of snow or made of wheat
Or looking like something that's kind of a treat.


Spirit was crushed; now is fading, But I want to help make things right.
Because I can see and I can feel, and you can see and you can feel
So why don't we both either stand up and fight
Or at least together we'll call it a night.

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#156 2005-12-18 2:30 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

Why is it that Mexican/Guatemalan/whatever Latin American country counts as a race and American doesn't?

You are truly ignorant if you don't think Latin America is as least as diverse as the US.


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#157 2005-12-18 2:31 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

soulcrusher wrote:

You are truly ignorant if you don't think Latin America is as least as diverse as the US.

You are all complete and utter smurfs that deserve to die painful deaths if you even so much as think that Watermelon is a smurfing vegetable!


Spirit was crushed; now is fading, But I want to help make things right.
Because I can see and I can feel, and you can see and you can feel
So why don't we both either stand up and fight
Or at least together we'll call it a night.

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#158 2005-12-18 3:00 am

Moses
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Re: Interracial Dating

NoExit wrote:

where all dem white bitches at ??

How many times have I told you to wash your hands after a weekly cross burning?


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#159 2005-12-18 9:08 am

Deadmanwalking
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Re: Interracial Dating

NoExit wrote:

where all dem white bitches at ??

Try the trailer park, single wides.


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#160 2005-12-18 9:19 am

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From: Western Australia
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Re: Interracial Dating

Egress wrote:

It's still dangerous to draw distinctions between classes of people. There's always a measure of pride. I'm special because I'm (white, black, asian, whatever). Not because I'm merely "different".

It's a short leap to feeling that others are inferior. Then they don't belong in your neighborhood, or can't date your daughter. Many people seem to lack the degree of enlightenment needed to overlook the differences.

I mean it seems silly to ignore our differences just in case we might think ourselves superior. It's also a shame to think that we should blanket our heritage in case it leads to discrimination.

From another angle, we're both declaring our nationality just over to the left. We're not supressing that for fear of discrimination, are we?

Or how about, should we all disguise our gender in a bid to eradicate sexism?

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#161 2005-12-18 9:20 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

Phydeaux wrote:

benightedbastard wrote:

Each other.

Wouldn't that be racist?

No.

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#162 2005-12-18 11:52 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

benightedbastard wrote:

Phydeaux wrote:

benightedbastard wrote:

Each other.

Wouldn't that be racist?

No.

Thanks for your resounding rebuttal, Alien.


Spirit was crushed; now is fading, But I want to help make things right.
Because I can see and I can feel, and you can see and you can feel
So why don't we both either stand up and fight
Or at least together we'll call it a night.

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#163 2005-12-18 1:27 pm

NoExit
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From: Westmister, California
Registered: 2001-02-12
Posts: 6243
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Re: Interracial Dating

i love you guys !!


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#164 2005-12-18 2:42 pm

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Re: Interracial Dating

I hate people who go on about racial identity.  You have a cultural identity, not a racial one.


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#165 2005-12-18 5:01 pm

Egress
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Re: Interracial Dating

benightedbastard wrote:

Standard disclaimer for when I post thoroughly tootled. Your good health! cheers

I should start using that. I can get very carried away sometimes...

Back on topic. I think we should agree to disagree. I could try to make some point about Cronulla, but that would be petty, and a little unfair.

Still, I think that ignoring racial differences would eliminate one more source of strife. We can celebrate our differences, but what does that achieve? I think that the negative effects of racial classification far outweigh the positive ones.

For Americans: Morgan Freeman is on 60 Minutes tonight. It could blow up into another Bill Cosby-style "controversy", so you might want to catch it.


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#166 2005-12-18 5:08 pm

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From: Redondo Beach, CA
Registered: 1999-12-20
Posts: 1924

Re: Interracial Dating

Baby James wrote:

This for the black girl
who grew up w/o her daddy,
your relationships they be shady
but I forgive you when you try to play me

Or the white girl
who grew up w/o her father
your relationships they be harder
but I can help you take it much farther


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the last little bit always ends on your pants!

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#167 2005-12-18 8:24 pm

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Re: Interracial Dating

Phydeaux wrote:

benightedbastard wrote:

Phydeaux wrote:


Wouldn't that be racist?

No.

Thanks for your resounding rebuttal, Alien.

I'm bb

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#168 2005-12-18 8:37 pm

benightedbastard
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From: Western Australia
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Posts: 28733
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Re: Interracial Dating

Egress wrote:

Back on topic. I think we should agree to disagree. I could try to make some point about Cronulla, but that would be petty, and a little unfair.

Yes it would.

Still, I think that ignoring racial differences would eliminate one more source of strife. We can celebrate our differences, but what does that achieve? I think that the negative effects of racial classification far outweigh the positive ones.

Sure, it might work but it's a sad thing to want to do. I don't want to have to blinker myself as consequence of other people's prejudice.

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#169 2005-12-18 8:52 pm

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Re: Interracial Dating

benightedbastard wrote:

Phydeaux wrote:

benightedbastard wrote:


No.

Thanks for your resounding rebuttal, Alien.

I'm bb

Stinkin' Lebs.


Spirit was crushed; now is fading, But I want to help make things right.
Because I can see and I can feel, and you can see and you can feel
So why don't we both either stand up and fight
Or at least together we'll call it a night.

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#170 2005-12-18 8:54 pm

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Re: Interracial Dating

geeze what a topic.
personally, if that's what winds yer watch.. i say be happy.
we all have our own tastes and i shouldn't judge.
what I do find distasteful in this "less enlightened" part of the world makes it easy to be racist about it.
it's a common observation around here and common knowledge of the practice.
and it's the main reason against interracial dating/marriage here depending on your point of view.
there are no links to provide, just observation.
in the "Politically Correct" world... it isn't talked about.
too many "tender sensibilities" get offended.

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#171 2005-12-18 10:01 pm

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Registered: 2003-09-20
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Re: Interracial Dating

huh?

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#172 2005-12-18 10:03 pm

Phydeaux
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Re: Interracial Dating

wat


Spirit was crushed; now is fading, But I want to help make things right.
Because I can see and I can feel, and you can see and you can feel
So why don't we both either stand up and fight
Or at least together we'll call it a night.

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#173 2005-12-18 10:59 pm

macnuke
just a plano guy
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From: North Dallas 40
Registered: 2004-05-16
Posts: 7132

Re: Interracial Dating

in this backwater of the world...
most white females with black men are totally trashed out. they have no self esteem, referred to as hos, and have a general 4th world look about them. dirty.. and not the good kind. many are grossly overweight yet still attempt to get by with an MTV bad girl look with old, stained spandex and torn shirt. the men are in whatever style is current "gangsta" with plenty of bling bling.
and they walk behind the man with all the kids totally subservient.
and most of the relationships end with dad hitting the road leaving mom broke, w/kids, no home, no anything that anyone regardless of race wants.
sad, but true.
whereas
most black females with white men are intelligent, attractive (that word doesn't refer to just "looks")
they have their dignity and self esteem.
not 100%.. but 4 out of 5 holds true around here.

like I said earlier. live the dream if that is what winds your watch.
I just see too many mixes that cost someone their "self"
and that is what is just wrong. regardless of color.

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#174 2005-12-18 11:04 pm

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Re: Interracial Dating

My take on it: I like or dislike people on the basis of what they say, think, and do.   Nobody can change anything about what happpened the day they were born, but every day after that all bets are off.   If you dress like a punk, speak like a punk, act like a punk, walk like a punk, then chances are you're a punk and you choose to be a punk.  Everything important about a person works the same way.


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#175 2005-12-19 12:50 am

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Re: Interracial Dating

Black women got da bah-dunk-a-dunk.


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