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#1 2003-06-20 9:34 am

Mustapha Mond
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Legalize incest marriages

NokX brought this up in the same-sex marriages thread and now I'm going to run with it.

I say legalize incest marriages. As long as we're talking about two consenting adults, I don't see why we should stop a brother and sister (or brother and brother or sister and sister) from getting married if they want to. I know there are certain genetics problems that can occur from massive inbreeding, but I don't think that's anything we have to worry about unless we suddenly develop a culture where incest marriages become the norm (and if that's what our society ultimately wants, then so be it). Also, as far as an unborn child's health goes, we don't have any laws (that I know of) that stop pregnant women from drinking and smoking while pregnant, so why should there be laws against allowing siblings to have children together?

Legalize incest marriages. Thank you.

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#2 2003-06-20 9:52 am

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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Incest is illegal, isn't it? Homosexuality isn't.


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#3 2003-06-20 10:11 am

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Re: Legalize incest marriages

I agree with Dan Savage from one of his columns a while ago.  There is nothing wrong with sexual relations between consenting adults, but incest doesn't count.  Because of the intricate power dynamics and so on in a family, there is no such thing as incest without some sort of coercion, whether it's overt or subtle.  Brother and sister, and certainly parent and child, are incapable of being truly consenting adults.


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#4 2003-06-20 10:18 am

petikas
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Is marriage between cousins illegal?


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#5 2003-06-20 10:20 am

Tallgeese
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Is marriage between cousins illegal?

depends on what degree. I think that anything more distant than 1st cousin is legal. I'm not entirely sure, though.


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#6 2003-06-20 10:24 am

Blueboy626
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Once again we have misguided fools confusing sexual acts with sexual orientations: (one more time for Mr. Santorum)

Heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual are unchangeable conditions, things that people are-not things they do.

Incest, bigamy, polgamy, adultery, sodomy, child molestation are things people do, not things people are. Anyone in the first group can commit acts of the second group, but none of the acts in the second group are exclusive behaviours of any one of the first group.

:humpfgrr:

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#7 2003-06-20 10:27 am

benightedbastard
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Well said, blueboy

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#8 2003-06-20 10:31 am

Saruman
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Biologically speaking - incest always produces genetically less-fit offspring in mammals. It may not be sever or overt, but is will be there. It could be as subtle as a weaker immune system or a higher susceptibility to cancer.

Closely related humans who produce offspring cannot avoid producing defective offspring either in the immediate following generation or in subsequent generations.

A female who uses drugs/smokes/drinks while pregnant may or may not produce less fit offspring with a nonrelated male.

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#9 2003-06-20 10:36 am

Saruman
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

And in anticipation of the implied eugenic slant of my response... yes I do believe in many aspects of "informed" breeding in humans.

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#10 2003-06-20 10:53 am

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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Once again we have misguided fools confusing sexual acts with sexual orientations: (one more time for Mr. Santorum)

Heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual are unchangeable conditions, things that people are-not things they do.

Incest, bigamy, polgamy, adultery, sodomy, child molestation are things people do, not things people are. Anyone in the first group can commit acts of the second group, but none of the acts in the second group are exclusive behaviours of any one of the first group.

:humpfgrr:

ha ha...that's the biggest load of bs i've ever heard.

unchangeable situations?  then how come one of my friends was straight until he was in his 30's due to a girl ending their engagement?  how come one of my friends mom went lesbian after her husband left her in her 40's?  how come ellen degeneres' lover went straight after their long relationship?

so you're saying that a person practicing homosexuality can't help wanting to make out with a guy, but a child molestor can help wanting to touch a child?

please think about your statement.

you said that none in the second group could comit acts done in the first group?  again...bs.

bisexuals are the perfect example that people choose who they're with.

look, i won't denounce the fact that people have certain feelings for things that they feel they can't change.  heck, i hated salads growing up, but now i love salads!  you couldn't have paid me $500 to eat a salad when i was 12.

but saying that homosexuality isn't a choice is ignorance.

now, whether it's wrong or not comes down to a whole new ballgame: morals.


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#11 2003-06-20 10:59 am

benightedbastard
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

The act is a choice, the orientation isn't

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#12 2003-06-20 11:04 am

NokX
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

The act is a choice, the orientation isn't

agreed to an extent...but the orientation can/does change.

there are people that feel like they have to drink alcohol or else they can't have a good day, or people that have urges to steal everytime they're in a store, or they have attractions to animals.

where you draw the line on those things is your morals...which is why i was curious as to what some of the people who thought that legalizing gay marriages thought about same family marriages.


"This country, with its institutions, belongs to the people who inhabit it. Whenever they shall grow weary of the existing government, they can exercise their constitutional right of amending it, or exercise their revolutionary right to overthrow it." Abraham Lincoln

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#13 2003-06-20 11:05 am

Saruman
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Re: Legalize incest marriages



you said that none in the second group could comit acts done in the first group?  again...bs.

actually that's not what he said at all. Can't you read before spouting off?

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#14 2003-06-20 11:16 am

ClayH
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

I'm waiting to see what XYZ says about this.


I'm going to leave it at that.

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#15 2003-06-20 11:18 am

NokX
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Re: Legalize incest marriages



you said that none in the second group could comit acts done in the first group?  again...bs.

actually that's not what he said at all. Can't you read before spouting off?

Anyone in the first group can commit acts of the second group, but none of the acts in the second group are exclusive behaviours of any one of the first group.

you read the same thing, right?  ok, just checking.


"This country, with its institutions, belongs to the people who inhabit it. Whenever they shall grow weary of the existing government, they can exercise their constitutional right of amending it, or exercise their revolutionary right to overthrow it." Abraham Lincoln

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#16 2003-06-20 11:19 am

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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Once again we have misguided fools confusing sexual acts with sexual orientations: (one more time for Mr. Santorum)

Heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual are unchangeable conditions, things that people are-not things they do.

Incest, bigamy, polgamy, adultery, sodomy, child molestation are things people do, not things people are. Anyone in the first group can commit acts of the second group, but none of the acts in the second group are exclusive behaviours of any one of the first group.

:humpfgrr:

Wow! That was so well put.


Don't make a religion of reason and logic, because in the passage of time reason may fail  you and logic may change and you will find yourself without faith.

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#17 2003-06-20 11:23 am

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Re: Legalize incest marriages

The act is a choice, the orientation isn't

agreed to an extent...but the orientation can/does change.

there are people that feel like they have to drink alcohol or else they can't have a good day, or people that have urges to steal everytime they're in a store, or they have attractions to animals.

where you draw the line on those things is your morals...which is why i was curious as to what some of the people who thought that legalizing gay marriages thought about same family marriages.

Orientation does NOT change. It is either acknowledged or repressed due to outside factors.


Don't make a religion of reason and logic, because in the passage of time reason may fail  you and logic may change and you will find yourself without faith.

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#18 2003-06-20 11:24 am

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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Sure, you're right, let's carry everything to an extreme.  If a brother and sister or brother and brother or sister and sister wanna smurf like jackrabbits, go for it.  Not like a law would stop them.  Sure, legalize it too, I'm sure it'll go over great in Arkansas and Kentucky.  Part of the part of respecting people's personal liberty is well, they get to do things you don't agree with.  So, if you wanna boink a relative, keep it in the family, go ahead.  Many would find it morally reprehensible (at least most gays and lesbians aren't related and chance of offspring is well, pretty nonexistent and they aren't hurting anyone else), but that's their problem.  So, Mr. Santorum, allow it.  Have fun with your sibling, your two headed retarded children and house with white picket fence...

As for polygamy, allow that too.  I'm sure the state of Utah would rejoice.  No, really.  I'm serious about this one.  As long as everyone consents, I'm all for it.

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#19 2003-06-20 11:32 am

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Re: Legalize incest marriages

unchangeable situations?  then how come one of my friends was straight until he was in his 30's due to a girl ending their engagement?  how come one of my friends mom went lesbian after her husband left her in her 40's?  how come ellen degeneres' lover went straight after their long relationship?

I don't know why I'm bothering here but...these people you cite were always one way or another, they just chose not to be honest about it with themselves or with others.

It is accepted psychological fact that peoples sexual orietation is set at a very early age (6-10 years old) and nothing will ever change that-no matter how much these people may outwardly appear as something else to wives, husbands and children.

but saying that homosexuality isn't a choice is ignorance.

The only 'choice' is whether someone wants to live honestly or openly about who and what they are. For heterosexuals this isn't really much of a choice as it is the accepted 'norm' in our society and most people will suffer no hardship or negative consequences if people think they are 'straight' however many gay people are still chastised and persecuted for being who they are-and that is offensive to me and the true essence of 'ignorance' in society.

If you think my being a homosexual was a choice, then fine I'll 'change' to heterosexual just as soon as you 'change' to homosexual. You first. big_smile

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#20 2003-06-20 11:32 am

ShnickyShnack
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Re: Legalize incest marriages



you said that none in the second group could comit acts done in the first group?  again...bs.

actually that's not what he said at all. Can't you read before spouting off?

Anyone in the first group can commit acts of the second group, but none of the acts in the second group are exclusive behaviours of any one of the first group.

you read the same thing, right?  ok, just checking.

He didn't say "none in the second group could commit acts done in the first group." You even reposted the comments, and I just don't see that anywhere.

He said none of the acts in the second group are exclusive behaviours of the first group. You understand what this means?


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#21 2003-06-20 11:42 am

petikas
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

In some cultures marriage between 1st cousins is considered normal, if not privilege. I know this because a person I know really well (Pakistani immigrant that now lives in the States) had really hard time when he tried to brake an arrangement for marriage that was arranged for him
(by the parents) with his 1st cousin. At first I thought this was an isolated case but after a while his girlfriend (not cousin) had the exact same problem when her parents were insisting that she should marry her cousin. Even worse more pressure was put on the girl because said cousin is about to graduate from college and his visa is expiring at the end of the summer so unless he gets married to his cousin he will have to return to Pakistan.
Finally I asked that person about it and he tells me that in his culture it is common for cousins to marry, and when a male cousin asks a female cousin for marriage it's considered disgrace for the female's family if the girl rejects said cousin.
The law in Pakistan probably allows this but I don't know how they get around the law in the States.  confused


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#22 2003-06-20 12:12 pm

Blueboy626
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

The law in Pakistan probably allows this but I don't know how they get around the law in the States.  confused

I'm not really sure there is a law in the US prohibiting first cousins from marrying-if there is it's most likely a state law and not a federal one. I believe that Franklin and Eleanor Roosevelt were first cousins. And I seem to remember just recently hearing on the news that 'geneticists' have determined the risk of genetic abnormalities to be minimal or nearly non-existent for offspring from first cousins.

All my first cousins were male. Which is a good thing as my aunt and uncle would have been my aunt and uncle anyway even if one of them weren't either my mother's brother or my father's sister. smile

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#23 2003-06-20 1:47 pm

NokX
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Orientation does NOT change. It is either acknowledged or repressed due to outside factors.

right...  so someone gets married, has kids, and then 20 years later that they're gay?  or is gay for 20 years and then decides they're straight?

feelings CAN change...i'm sorry.


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#24 2003-06-20 1:53 pm

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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Once again we have misguided fools confusing sexual acts with sexual orientations: (one more time for Mr. Santorum)

Heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual are unchangeable conditions, things that people are-not things they do.

Incest, bigamy, polgamy, adultery, sodomy, child molestation are things people do, not things people are. Anyone in the first group can commit acts of the second group, but none of the acts in the second group are exclusive behaviours of any one of the first group.

:humpfgrr:

ha ha...that's the biggest load of bs i've ever heard.

unchangeable situations?  then how come one of my friends was straight until he was in his 30's due to a girl ending their engagement?  how come one of my friends mom went lesbian after her husband left her in her 40's?  how come ellen degeneres' lover went straight after their long relationship?

so you're saying that a person practicing homosexuality can't help wanting to make out with a guy, but a child molestor can help wanting to touch a child?

please think about your statement.

you said that none in the second group could comit acts done in the first group?  again...bs.

bisexuals are the perfect example that people choose who they're with.

look, i won't denounce the fact that people have certain feelings for things that they feel they can't change.  heck, i hated salads growing up, but now i love salads!  you couldn't have paid me $500 to eat a salad when i was 12.

but saying that homosexuality isn't a choice is ignorance.

now, whether it's wrong or not comes down to a whole new ballgame: morals.

Oh my God.  You...

You...there is no word for it.  Feelings do not change, you smurfing moron.  Why the hell would gay people continue to be gay if they could?

It's people like you, not us, that the world could do without.


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#25 2003-06-20 1:55 pm

ShnickyShnack
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Re: Legalize incest marriages

Relax. He's sort of the class clown around here. He's not quite as chucklicious as BestBuy, but he's in the same time zone.


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