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#1 2005-09-02 2:34 pm
Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
Oh the horror. I thought I'd convinced her to get an Apple. My iBook has been cute, wooing her with it's small footprint and transportability. Then she set her sights on a powerbook with it's robust speakers and svelt design and I thought the rest was history. But now she thinks the powerbook is too expensive (and it IS more than she needs) and so has swung towards a Dell. She won't be disuased by my explanation of processor speed vs performance or how Apple does better memory managing. She actually prefers the way Word runs in a Windows environment and just wants it for photos, music and DVDs. (sounds like an iBook would be perfect but she doesn't like the iBook speakers). And she doesn't seem to want to listen to me; she says I'm some kind of Mac ADDICT! (the strongest arguement she has is that it's a bad time to by an Apple laptop. With the switch to Intel and all, it'll be a while before Apple stabilizes) Any suggestions on how to keep her away from the dark side?
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#2 2005-09-02 2:51 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
1) Have her check customer support... Dell dropped significantly in the ratings
2) If she really prefers the way Office works in Windows then you cannot persuade her
3) Give up trying to control her
4) The switch to Intel will be a non-issue and transparent to users (It's not like as soon as intel-based macs are available all existing macs will cease to function and be useless door stops.
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#3 2005-09-02 3:00 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
Send her round to me, I'll straighten her out.
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#4 2005-09-02 3:06 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
You might try the tough love approach and tell her not to expect any tech support from you (not that I recommend this path).
You might use this situation to buy yourself a new PowerBook and give your old iBook to her (that's what I did when my mom came to me with a Dell ad in hand).
You could tell her that she should avoid the Inspiron line of Dell laptops. My understanding is that these aren't really designed for usual laptop use--more as a desktop/tower replacement for those who don't want to use that much space. She should look instead at the Dell Latitudes or better, which are also more equitably priced compared to the iBooks/PowerBooks. There is at least some truth to the saying: "You get what you pay for."
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#5 2005-09-02 3:16 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
Dump her.
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#7 2005-09-02 3:45 pm
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It's just a computer. Let her use what she wants. 
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#8 2005-09-02 3:55 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
Actually, you can use the "Mac Addict" line as a reason for her NOT to buy the Dell. Ask her how many "Dell Addicts" there are, and when she says the obvious none, ask her if she thinks that there might be a reason for that and what it might be, (BTW, don't use the word "sucks" regarding the Dell. If she still buys it, that could haunt you). Aso, the viruses/spyware/malware argument can be a good one if she plans on hookng it up to the intenet. The tech support "threat" can also be useful, but try it as "If you get the *book, then I'll be able to help you if something goes wrong, but on the Dell, I really won't have a better idea than you do" (assuming she needs tech support).
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#9 2005-09-02 4:58 pm
Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
D'Eyncourt wrote:
You might try the tough love approach and tell her not to expect any tech support from you (not that I recommend this path).
I did this with mine and now we have 2 powerbooks in the house with no complaints.
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#10 2005-09-02 5:08 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
However, if she does get a Dell, you can play Half-Life 2 on it.
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#11 2005-09-02 5:09 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
Tell her that real women don't do Windows. We're too smart for that. We want computers that work with a minimum of fuss and bother. When I have to spend time in the office, I bring my iBook so I can spend as little time as possible on the Dell.
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#12 2005-09-02 6:01 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
mahakali wrote:
It's just a computer. Let her use what she wants.
Sure, but if you're going to be free tech support then you should get a say in what she is going to buy.
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#13 2005-09-02 7:59 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
Zetetic Apparatchik wrote:
However, if she does get a Dell, you can play Half-Life 2 on it.
Only if you buy the 9.5lbs XPS models. Their standard lineup is littered with Intel Extreme to the Max Graphics, especially in the price range we're talking here if she thinks a PowerBook is pricey.
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#14 2005-09-02 8:38 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
While it doesn't match the sleek or sexiness of a PowerBook, the Latitude D810 is a nice laptop, I've used quite a few and like them
Tiger Server, not so bad now. Automator, however, still sucks.
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#15 2005-09-03 12:44 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
If she wants to buy a Windows laptop, fine. Let it go. Just don't buy a Dell. They are the worst. My partner just bought a Gateway (he really had no choice - his line of work requires IE 6, and no the Safari spoofing trick didn't work), and it is a great little laptop. I actually like the screen better than the iBook's, although nothing compares to a PowerBook's.
Just make sure she gets virus protection, and spy sweeper software.
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#16 2005-09-03 2:41 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
MacBoy4139 wrote:
If she wants to buy a Windows laptop, fine. Let it go. Just don't buy a Dell. They are the worst.
[snip]
Can I ask (again?): was this a Dell Inspiron?
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#17 2005-09-03 8:13 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
Luodawei wrote:
She actually prefers the way Word runs in a Windows environment and just wants it for photos, music and DVDs.
If I am reading this sentence correctly, then she is making a big mistake with not getting a Mac. She likes the way Word runs on windows, and yet will not actually be using Word much, because her primary use for the Machine will be photos, music and DVDs. If that is correct, then you could simply point out that this machine goes way beyond the hardware. Apple software for consumer-level photos, music and DVD burning is unbeatable with the iLife suite. She will be hard pressed, if not impossible, to find equivalent programs to iTunes, iPhoto, iMovie & iDVD on the Mac and they way they all integrate with each other for seemless content management, cretion, editing and burning.
It would be a huge mistake to buy a Dell because you like the way Word runs on it, and then to use said machine for media. When I switched 3 yrs ago, many of my co-workers said ***gasp*** you will not be able to run Auto-Cad, ArcView or any of our models at home. I figured, why would I pick a machine based on applications that I may have to run at home 1 or 2 times a year, and then suffer through the torture of using an inferior tool for the job for the applications that I use the machine for every single day?? Besides, I don't really want to have to run those programs at home anyway, I prefer to do my work at.....work.
call me crazy.
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#18 2005-09-04 2:36 am
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It's a good thing she's your girlfriend, and not your wife. Divorce is expensive. 
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#19 2005-09-04 11:59 am
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
D'Eyncourt wrote:
MacBoy4139 wrote:
If she wants to buy a Windows laptop, fine. Let it go. Just don't buy a Dell. They are the worst.
[snip]Can I ask (again?): was this a Dell Inspiron?
Being as this is my first post in this thread, I'm not sure where the (again) comes from. I really don't care what Dell calls it - even friends of mine that are Dell fanatics say "I wouldn't ever buy a Dell laptop." They own Dell desktops, btw.
At any rate, if you really want to convince her, sit down with the cold facts. The cheapest laptop of her choice (Dell included) is going to have Intel celeron mobile technology. Intel has just come out saying that they use "failed" processors to make the celerons. They are going to do it in the future with dual core chips when only one core works. Reduced waste = cheaper price.
On top of it all, it has a shared graphics processor, meaning none. The processor is doing everything. Even though she may never play a game beyond solitaire (games weren't mentioned as a priority, so that is why I am mentioning it), ALL of the windows and even IE or Firefox have graphics.
In order to get a seperate graphics processor, you are looking at a minimum of $1200 for a PC laptop. Of any brand.
Compare this to an iBook which has a seperate graphics processor that is even Core Image compatible - $999. There goes the cost arguement.
The iBook uses basically the same processor as the PowerBooks. All PC laptops use different technologies - a celeron is not the same as a Pentium M.
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#20 2005-09-04 1:21 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
MacBoy4139 wrote:
At any rate, if you really want to convince her, sit down with the cold facts. The cheapest laptop of her choice (Dell included) is going to have Intel celeron mobile technology. Intel has just come out saying that they use "failed" processors to make the celerons. They are going to do it in the future with dual core chips when only one core works. Reduced waste = cheaper price.
On top of it all, it has a shared graphics processor, meaning none. The processor is doing everything. Even though she may never play a game beyond solitaire (games weren't mentioned as a priority, so that is why I am mentioning it), ALL of the windows and even IE or Firefox have graphics.
In order to get a seperate graphics processor, you are looking at a minimum of $1200 for a PC laptop. Of any brand.
Compare this to an iBook which has a seperate graphics processor that is even Core Image compatible - $999. There goes the cost arguement.
The iBook uses basically the same processor as the PowerBooks. All PC laptops use different technologies - a celeron is not the same as a Pentium M.
Ahhhh, the paralizing, overwhelming, over-rated problem of too much choice. PC geeks think that more choice is good, but this is not always true, and frequently too much choice is very, very bad. Macboy is alluding to a big problem right now in the PC world - you have to become an expert in the technology, computers, processors, chips, etc, just to make a decision about what to buy. Then, once you buy it, you need to continue to be an expert in order to maintain a PC in the areas of firewalls, virus protection, Windows security updates, malware and spyware programs, etc.
Apple, by stark contrast, is much different. You do not need to be an expert to make a decision, because there is far less choice. Just 2 laptop lines to chose from, one consumer, one pro, with just a few options available in each. Simple. Then, once you bring it home, you don't have to worry about being an expert at computers and techology to run it. You can just use it. It just works. Your girlfriend should consider these aspects of a Mac when making her decision.
If she is a tinkerer, who like a lot of options, geniunely enjoys researching and learning about these things, then she might be better off with that Dell. Most people, however, would be better off with the Apple philosophy, despite the fact that most people continue to buy Windows machines. But people are unwilling to pay the premium that it takes to get a Mac, both in terms of cost and effort to learn a new system. The rule of "you get what you pay for" is seldom not true, and it certainly proves true once again in the world of computers.
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#21 2005-09-04 2:32 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
MacBoy4139 wrote:
D'Eyncourt wrote:
MacBoy4139 wrote:
If she wants to buy a Windows laptop, fine. Let it go. Just don't buy a Dell. They are the worst.
[snip]Can I ask (again?): was this a Dell Inspiron?
Being as this is my first post in this thread, I'm not sure where the (again) comes from. I really don't care what Dell calls it - even friends of mine that are Dell fanatics say "I wouldn't ever buy a Dell laptop." They own Dell desktops, btw.
[snip]
Sorry, it's just that someone in another thread made a similar blanket statement about all of the Dell laptops, and I'm too lazy to try to find out if that was you.
My first reply here explains in part why I asked: I want to help confirm a story I've been hearing that the cheapest Dell laptop line (Inspiron) have overall problems due to not being designed to take the abuse that a travelling laptop might encounter, and that Inspirons should be thought of more as a desktop/tower replacement. This is not to say that you and your Dell-using friends didn't have problems with the more expensive Dell laptop lines.
So: was your Dell laptop an Inspiron?
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#22 2005-09-04 3:14 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
I did at one point have a Dell laptop, but it wasn't an Inspiron. It was given to me from my job, and sparks flew. Literally. There was a defect in the power cord and the power supply, and actual sparks starting flying from the unit.
It was replaced with a laptop from IBM (it was a Windows NT kinda place).
I second the desktop/tower replacement, but I have to ask:
Why bother buying a laptop if you don't want to move it? If it is a size factor, even Dell makes a smaller desktop, although they charge a premium for it. I would end up buying a Mac mini instead.
In my comparison with PC laptops and Apple's, I forgot to mention that Bluetooth is built in, and they give you 512 MB of RAM. I realize that we have all been saying "finally," but the truth is that most of the competition is still at 256.
When I went to configure a Dell laptop for comparison shopping, I ended up at $1500 (and change) when I got rid of the downgraded components.
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#23 2005-09-04 4:59 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
Thanks, MacBoy4139.
I have no idea why people would want an nonmovable laptop, but this was how Dell's thinking was explained to me, albeit by someone who was burned by an Inspiron purchase ("burned" because it started falling apart and he couldn't get it repaired by Dell). Dell doesn't expect that the Inspiron's would be abused as much as the "real" laptops would be.
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#24 2005-09-04 5:24 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
see... this person was BURNED by a dell... so tell your girlfriend she must get an ibook or she will burn in dell for all eternity!!
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#25 2005-09-04 6:50 pm
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Re: Help! My girlfriend wants to buy a Dell!!
This story about burning reminds me of another story of a girl got burned when her dad's dell laptop exploded. IIRC I read it at Slashdot but couldn't find the article. Ten second google Found this (it was also reportedly Inspiron):
First came the man whose laptop overheated and burnt his nether regions (http://www.silicon.com/a56527 ). Then there was the girl whose machine exploded. South African Nikita Sooklal, 15, had been happily working away on her laptop - reportedly a Dell Inspiron - for all of five minutes when it blew up, causing her second degree burns. And that really isn't funny at all.
We've also heard from one silicon reader whose machine - also a Dell Inspiron - got a tad warm. He was working on it during a flight from Fresno to Dallas in the US and put it briefly on his lap as he folded his table up in preparation for landing - and got a nasty burn as a result. He complained to Dell, who replaced various components, but it was still seriously overheating. In an effort to prove his point to the company, he tried to find out exactly how hot it was getting. He held a mercury thermometer against the refurbished machine. That exploded. And hot mercury isn't very nice. This is beginning to sound like an unfunny episode of Some Mothers Do 'Ave 'em now, but we think it's all true. Our friend then called poison control who told him (helpfully) to move the source of heat away from the mercury, get it off his skin and dispose of it. Our man did so, and (inevitably) cut himself on the broken thermometer glass in the process.
Whoa! Just whoa!
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