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#1 2006-07-05 2:29 pm
- lagamorph
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NO! I don't want your damn card!
EVERYTIME I purchase something at Barnes and Noble I get the sales pitch about their damn card. Join the card club and get 10% off the purchase. I don't do cards! I don't want to be in their computer system. I don't want them tracking my purchases. I figure that it's nobody's business that I bought a beginner's beading book, today. But, everytime I purchase something, they ask if I have a Barnes and Noble card. I tell them, nicely, that I don't have one because I don't do cards. Then I get the sales pitch! I want to be polite. I want to be nice. I don't want to ruin the cashier's day, but I think they should DROP IT after I tell them that I don't do cards! I've had cashiers stand there and pressure me and argue with me about it! They must get a bonus for signing people up.
Here's the deal. I do NOT believe that I get more benefit out of being in their computer system than they get out of my being in it! I don't trust it! Ain't nothing free and if they're giving me 10% off the purchase price of the book, it's because they're getting more than that 10% for having me in their computer system. I don't trust it! Not doing it!
I'm afraid that in the very near future, I'm going to be rude about it. I don't want to be rude about it. I just want them to get the hell off my back about it! I don't want to be in their damned book club, thank you very much! Shut the hell up about it, already!
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#2 2006-07-05 2:53 pm
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Heh, want to have some fun? Go to a Radio Shack, buy something and then refuse to give your zip code.
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#3 2006-07-05 3:10 pm
Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
And if you got me as a rep, I'd wink and go "38570? Okay, sir."
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#4 2006-07-05 3:12 pm
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
I never give my zip code and I don't do cards either. the key is to look them in the eye and firmly say NO! works for me everytime. sometimes saying no before they even finish the senten… NO!
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#5 2006-07-05 3:39 pm
- [HTO]SueZQ
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
We don't do cards and we don't do phone numbers and we've actually had people question us on the phone numbers. I told the girl that we pay money to keep it private, I'm not going to give it out because I want to buy candles at Garden Ridge.
As for zipcode, we give them ours sometimes, but most of the time I give 90211 just to see who'll look up.
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#6 2006-07-05 4:07 pm
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
I walked out of a Radio Shack one day, leaving my proposed purchases in front of the cashier, because I didn't want to give them my address. Blew them away. Very satisfying. If I pay cash, they don't have a need for any information.
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#7 2006-07-05 4:07 pm
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
I actually had a clerk who refused to take no for an answer. Without screaming, I asked in my loudest , booming voice, "Where's the DAMN manager?" He took my money REAL fast. He wanted me gone.
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#8 2006-07-05 4:20 pm
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Nobody asks me for my addrees, postal code or number when I buy anything. 
Maybe once, I've given my #.
#9 2006-07-05 7:33 pm
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Maybe nobody likes you.... 
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#10 2006-07-05 10:33 pm
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Just wait til you go to the store and try to buy any meds that happen to have pseudo ephedrine in them, and then they tell you that you can't purchase them unless you show your license. And not just show it. They take it somewhere and do something with it. I can't imagine stores having access to a Fed database, but they could be tracking it themselves and notifying the feds to comply with the new law.
How's that for big brother?
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#11 2006-07-05 10:53 pm
- Warin
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Yeah Justine.
A friend of mine in Oregon has four people with fairly heavy allergies in the same family. She's finding it difficult to buy enough OTC medication to keep them stocked. Funny part is, if they were still prescription meds, everything would be fine. But insurance companies lobby to have antihistamines made OTC as a "convenience" to their customers. So they become OTC and suddenly you have to be worried about people thinking you are running a meth lab 
I work at an electronics store. On anything with a warranty, we ask for name and phone number at a minimum, so we can track the invoice down when it goes for repair and the customer inevitably cant find their invoice. If someone doesnt want to give it? We dont make a fuss. Of course, we also dont sell or use our database for anything other than warranty tracking. Well... one emplyee used it like his black book, but he's no longer with the company.
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#12 2006-07-05 11:13 pm
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Either you haven't been in a Radioshack in ages, or Radioshacks are different around me. I haven't been asked for anything besides paying in the last 4 years or so.
As for the Barnes & Noble deal, I'd recommend NOT getting rude with people at the store level. Having worked in retail, the reason they annoy people over those things is that corporate tracks how many of those cards they get people to sign up for and if the number is too low, then heads roll, so that means you can scream at the clerk. You can scream at the supervisor. You can scream at the manager. You can scream at the District manager and the next time you go there, they'll still ask. Or risk getting fired. If you can scream at the CEO and convince him to stop that program, then they'll stop asking you every time. Or you can just say "no thanks" and if the clerk isn't a jerk or WAY behind their goal, then they'll let you go on and no one gets hurt.
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#13 2006-07-06 2:44 am
- kamizuno
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
I just lie and say I'm already a member, and if they ask to see a card I say I left it at home, saves me a lot of irritation that way 
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#14 2006-07-06 3:12 am
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Ugh, I have that same damn problem when I buy magazines or comic books from Waldenbooks. I think they have a shared system with Barnes and Noble.
Now I buy magazines at Walgreens instead.
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#15 2006-07-06 12:53 pm
- lagamorph
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
I don't mind them asking. I know they have to ask or get in trouble. I just want them to take "No, thank you!" for an answer and drop it. It's the pushy ones that I'm going to lose my temper with and I really don't want to do that. And, the assistant manager of this particular store was a student of mine many years ago, and I don't want to cause her trouble.
A while back I was in Bed, Bath, and Beyond and was asked for my zip code and politely told the cashier that I don't give out personal information. In a very rude, snotty voice she informed me that a zip code was not "personal information" like I was the biggest moron in the world. I told her that I'd changed my mind about the purchase, left it on the counter and walked out!
Hasn't Oregon (or maybe Washington) made OTC with pseudo ephedrine in them by prescription only, now? Can't remember if it's a done deal or it's pending. Makes me so angry I just go cross-eyed thinking about it.
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#16 2006-07-11 12:12 pm
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Borders/Waldenbooks cards are better anyway. You get a heckova lot more discounts and premiums for free. It's sad that B&N can't follow suit. The same for Books A Million. Card for a fee, get jack for it. So not worth it.
When will places learn that you get more customers if you offer a free card than make people pay for it. Hmm..reminds me, I need to use my personal shopping day soon. 
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#17 2006-07-11 3:57 pm
- ConnertheCat
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
I enjoy when people are paranoid. What's next, will you refuse to let people know what state you live in too?
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#19 2006-07-11 6:21 pm
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Will you consider an AppleStyle Visa card as too intrusive?
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#20 2006-07-11 8:08 pm
- joseph_tso
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Any of y'all heard of smurf a number?
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#21 2006-07-11 9:33 pm
Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Every time, every freaking time I call round table for pizza delivery - they want my phone number and address. Almost makes me want to buy frozen - is there no privacy anymore?
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#23 2006-07-12 9:30 am
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
Target. I hate the question at Target.
"Would you like to apply for a Target card and save 10%?"
Ummm... It's a birthday card.
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#24 2006-07-12 9:52 am
Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
SpacemanSpiff wrote:
Target. I hate the question at Target.
"Would you like to apply for a Target card and save 10%?"
Ummm... It's a birthday card.
I have a Target card, but i don't use it. I get the strangest looks from clerks when they ask me if i want to apply, and i say i already have one, and i'm either using my debit card or writing a check.
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#25 2006-07-12 10:05 am
- SpacemanSpiff
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Re: NO! I don't want your damn card!
justine wrote:
SpacemanSpiff wrote:
Target. I hate the question at Target.
"Would you like to apply for a Target card and save 10%?"
Ummm... It's a birthday card.I have a Target card, but i don't use it. I get the strangest looks from clerks when they ask me if i want to apply, and i say i already have one, and i'm either using my debit card or writing a check.
What? You aren't racking up debt? Crazy!
I also like to make large purchases (say greater than a grand or two) with cash. That draws some real funny looks.
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