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#1 2006-08-27 2:48 am
Housesitting
About an hour and a half ago, i got home from a week long vacation. My daughters boyfriend housesat for me because i'm a little paranoid about someone breaking in. Anyway, he stayed here the entire time i was gone. When i got home, he wasn't here because he was with my daughter visiting some relatives. I walk in the house and what do i find? My sliding glass door on the balcony was wide open and the screen unlocked. I DO live on a second floor, but it wouldn't take much effort to climb up from the patio fence below since it extends farther out.
I call his cell phone and ask him WTH and he says "well, i've only been gone a couple of hours". He also didn't think i was going to return tonight. For some reason he istakenly thought i was coming home tomorrow.
I know he did me a favor by staying here, but what the smurf! 
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#2 2006-08-27 3:17 am
#3 2006-08-27 3:19 pm
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Sounds like an airhead.
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#4 2006-08-27 5:29 pm
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Sounds like he was looking more like hanging out at your place rather than house sitting. I hope your trip was at least enjoyable
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#5 2006-08-27 6:05 pm
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Wow, this dude was quite useless. If you explained t him that you wanted him staying there because you were afraid of burglars and he does this, then this dude is a moron. I hate it when people dont follow directions. I hope you didnt pay him? What if you were robbed? What would you have done to him? Would you have expected him to pay for the missing items? I would.
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#6 2006-08-27 7:25 pm
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I'm housesitting for my grandparents for te next 2 1/2 weeks. I wouldn't dare do anything like that. I've got this house locked up all the time and do all te to-do's they have for me. Sheeze. What a hoser.
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#7 2006-08-27 10:59 pm
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I honestly don't know what i would've done had i come home to find anything missing. I know he won't be housesitting for me again, though. Not that i'll be going on vacation again anytime soon.
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#8 2006-08-27 11:17 pm
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We had a girl that works for my husband house-sit for us 3 weeks ago when we were gone for 8 days. The first thing we see as we pull in is that the bathroom window was broken. She isn't around, so my husband calls her cell phone: she's at her mom's doing her laundry (no reason she couldn't have done it at our house - I think she just wanted to be awol when we got back). Apparently, she locked the keys and her cell phone in the house, and instead of going to the neighbors, who she's met and who have a spare key, she grabs a rock and breaks a window. My husband goes into the bathroom, and it's a mess. She had decided to buy a bunch of beer, got drunk, and threw up (she cleaned it up, but only sorta). I go into the kitchen, and there's a greasy sheen on everything. She had decided to deep fry (frozen) french fries in a saucepan on a gas stove. I'm probably lucky she didn't blow up my house.
She's only 19, but nobody's ever held her accountable for her actions before, by her own admission. We made her pay for the window and the cleanup. She had house sat for us before for a few days at a time, with no problems.
The trouble with finding housesitters is that most responsible people have homes and jobs of their own to take care of. I have a friend that was able to do it because he was caretaking his parents, but they didn't need supervision until recently, so he could spend the day with them, and the evenings at our house. Since he can't do it aymore. the last couple years have been pretty hit and miss, mostly miss.
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#9 2006-08-27 11:25 pm
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That really sucks, mtpalms. That's good she paid for everything. maybe she learned a lesson, but i'm guessing she just bitched to her friends about having to pay for it all.
Originally, my daughter was going to stay here, but it was going to be a lot of trouble to move all the babys things here for that short a period of time.
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#10 2006-08-28 3:18 am
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So basically, you're more likely to get your home smurfed-up by irresponsible housesitters than by burglars... My distrust of people I know to do something properly far exceeds my fear of burglars I don't. I'd be more nervous entrusting my home to some young goon than leaving it unoccupied.
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#11 2006-08-28 9:55 am
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I need a housesitter for extended periods to take care of my pets. I don't mind having the neighbors feed them if it is only for a couple nights, but I'm afraid they'd feel abandoned if the house was mostly empty for any longer than that. The dog is indoor/outdoor so not such a big deal, but the cat is an indoor cat.
Apart from the reliable caretaker-guy I mentioned, I've never had a housesitter that didn't break something, or do something stupid, all though well meaning. The dumbest was the couple who thoughtfully smoothed out all the dirt mounds around the horse pen. My husband had put them there with a tractor to prevent flooding the corral when we have desert thunderstorms and flash floods. It must have taken them days to undo our flood control, and they were so proud of themselves! ::grits teeth, bears it::
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#12 2006-08-28 10:10 am
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I just never go anywhere so I don't have to deal with a house sitter. A friend of mine house sat for someone and I got to hear all the stupid things he did. Made me never want to leave someone alone in my house.
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#13 2006-08-28 12:18 pm
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mtpalms wrote:
I need a housesitter for extended periods to take care of my pets. I don't mind having the neighbors feed them if it is only for a couple nights, but I'm afraid they'd feel abandoned if the house was mostly empty for any longer than that. The dog is indoor/outdoor so not such a big deal, but the cat is an indoor cat.
Apart from the reliable caretaker-guy I mentioned, I've never had a housesitter that didn't break something, or do something stupid, all though well meaning. The dumbest was the couple who thoughtfully smoothed out all the dirt mounds around the horse pen. My husband had put them there with a tractor to prevent flooding the corral when we have desert thunderstorms and flash floods. It must have taken them days to undo our flood control, and they were so proud of themselves! ::grits teeth, bears it::
See, having had something like that happen, I wouldn't be able to do it again; I just couldn't relax knowing someone was living in my home and potentially re-landscaping my garden! I'd much rather put the cats/dogs in a cattery/kennel and forget about everything. Sure, your animals may not derive the same pleasure from being away from their environment as you, but they soon get over it and are oh-so-pleased to see you when you return. Plus you know that a) your animals are safe, and; b) you haven't lumbered an unwilling and potentially irresponsible neighbour with the keep of your pets.
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#14 2006-08-28 12:21 pm
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I love housesitting, and dogsitting too. What a great gig.
Never had to get a housesitter myself, since I'm just an apartment renter, but the last time one of my friends stayed over, she left (like, left the city for good, end of vacation) while I was at work, and left the front door unlocked! I mean, I had forgotten to give her explicit instructions for where to put the keys when she took off, but all she had to do was call me (I would've given her the garage code and told her to leave 'em in there), or just use her brain and figure something out, which other guests before her had done no problem (shoved 'em under the door, left 'em with the building manager, mailed them back, etc.). Her genius solution was to leave keys lying out in plain sight on the coffee table and just leave the door unlocked. Her explanation, "Well, the building is locked, isn't it?" You know how easy it is to get into a building? You just stand outside, moron! I told her that she should find another place to stay the next time she comes to town, and she was kind of shocked. Well, sorry. Nothing was taken, but my house was completely insecure for an entire afternoon. Not cool.
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#15 2006-08-28 6:47 pm
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that was what i initially was going to say was a positive about the situation... at least you didn't leave him there and he throw some huge party and have you come back to discover a bunch of trash all around the house or worse.
if you're tentative about "hiring" a housesitter next time, i'd actually suggest just turning/leaving on some lights and tvs in the house to give the appearance that someone is in the house. it should hinder robbers from coming after your house because i don't think they'd take the chance of walking up to a house to "check" if it's empty first. they'd rather go after the empty, lights-off, looking house.
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#16 2006-08-28 7:17 pm
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yankees4life wrote:
that was what i initially was going to say was a positive about the situation... at least you didn't leave him there and he throw some huge party and have you come back to discover a bunch of trash all around the house or worse.
if you're tentative about "hiring" a housesitter next time, i'd actually suggest just turning/leaving on some lights and tvs in the house to give the appearance that someone is in the house. it should hinder robbers from coming after your house because i don't think they'd take the chance of walking up to a house to "check" if it's empty first. they'd rather go after the empty, lights-off, looking house.
He wouldn't have had a party here. As for leaving the lights and tv on ... i do that whenever i go to work. 
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#17 2006-08-28 11:30 pm
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justine wrote:
He wouldn't have had a party here. As for leaving the lights and tv on ... i do that whenever i go to work.
Welcome to the forums, by the way.
smart move, and thanks. 
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#18 2006-08-29 6:12 am
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My grandparents would always set timers on lamps and stuff around the house so it would look like some one was actually at home. Lights would turn on and off and the TV would turn on. Sometimes, even the neighbors didn't know that they were gone. They lived in Milwaukee and my grandpa was paranoid about someone breaking in.
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#19 2006-08-29 12:55 pm
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yeah, i always heard about people using timers for their lights in their houses, but i never knew how much rigging up the house with timers to do that would actually cost. so the cheap route... just leave some lights and a tv or two in house on whenever you're gone.
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#20 2006-08-29 3:09 pm
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You just get those plug in ones and plug the lamp into it.
That's all they used.
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#22 2006-08-29 4:13 pm
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justine wrote:
Orion wrote:
You just get those plug in ones and plug the lamp into it.
That's all they used.
Where do you get those?
Target, Walgreens, Home Depot, Amazon, just about anywhere. 
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#23 2006-08-29 4:50 pm
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Malkin wrote:
justine wrote:
Orion wrote:
You just get those plug in ones and plug the lamp into it.
That's all they used.
Where do you get those?
Target, Walgreens, Home Depot, Amazon, just about anywhere.
Thanks. I've never seen them before and had no idea where you'd get 'em.
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#24 2006-08-29 5:14 pm
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justine wrote:
Malkin wrote:
justine wrote:
Where do you get those?Target, Walgreens, Home Depot, Amazon, just about anywhere.
Thanks. I've never seen them before and had no idea where you'd get 'em.
same here. i didn't know they were that easily accessible, but then again, i was never really specifically looking for them that seriously.
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#25 2006-08-29 10:06 pm
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yankees4life wrote:
justine wrote:
Malkin wrote:
Target, Walgreens, Home Depot, Amazon, just about anywhere.Thanks. I've never seen them before and had no idea where you'd get 'em.
same here. i didn't know they were that easily accessible, but then again, i was never really specifically looking for them that seriously.
I actually use a few of those when go away. Set one in the living room for around 7:30 to 11 or so. Then the one in the bedroom kicks in for about an hour. gives the illusion that someone is home and moving about the house. They are really simple to set up and then once set you just forget about them
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